Just venting a bit...*

Ok, so I have been thinking alot about love and relationships for the last week (I know it has nothing to do with this blog, but since it's my blog, its all fair game). I am so aggravated with everything having to do with love. So many relationships and marriages are crumbling and alot of it has to do with cheating; now that makes me more upset more than ever. It makes me mad, because I am so sick of men wasting women's time with their cheating shit. They are being selfish and not thinking about who is affected in the meantime. Men don't realize how emotionally beat down and bitter women become because of this. It hurts and it hurts really bad. I remember when I went through that with my last boyfriend and it took me at least 9 months to recooperate just from everything. When I got out of that relationship, it made me question eveyrthing I was. I felt ugly and fat and like I was the scum of the earth and I compared myself to everyone else and it was such a bad place for me and it was painful. It pains me to have to see people go through what I went through because it is so hard and now it is so common.
The funny thing about this, is men wonder why women are crazy and bitter and they dont realize that they made us this way with their cheating antics and lies. At the end of the day, everyone wants honesty and to be with someone who genuinely wants to be with them, who truly loves them, in the midst of ups and downs. Women are unique, beautiful people who contribute to the way the world is run and we deserve so many amazing things and respect. We want to be loved genuinely for who we are and unconditionally.
Let me give this message to all the men out there: Don't waste our time, if you don't want us or you know you have other things going on that may cause you to hurt us, please leave us be. We have enough issues, we dont need you being one of them. Be honest with us, because regardless of how mad we are, we can respect the honesty. PLEASE!!! You don't realize how many women are broken and damaged because of you! There are some good women out there, if only you could give us the respect that we need.
* This message is for women, because I feel like addressing the man. I know women do the same things, but today I am taking up for all my women, because we deserve it!